Starting over is hard.
September 25, 2023
Resources to help you are included below!
After asking for a divorce from my husband after 13 years together,
after watching my stepdad die in front of me,
after getting fired….
I felt like I didn't know…
What to do.
How to feel.
Where start.
I felt grief, anger, disappointment, loneliness, uncertainty, and so many other things.
But I was afraid to say it. Really name it.
Admit that I dont have it under control.
Admit that it’s so hard.
And that’s because it is hard.
I had gone through something painful.
I had said no to something/someone.
I had been told no.
I left a situation that I knew was making me sick.
I had no say in a matter and was left thinking ‘what in the f*ck just happened’.
I lost a sense of who I thought I always was.
The identity that I had rested and relied on for so long.
Then I started to see that more is possible. That starting over was necessary.
I knew change was needed.
I was afraid it would be hard.
Of course there’s hesitation.
That’s because there was a misalignment between what I want and the belief that I DESERVE what I want.
If this has resonated so far or you find yourself in a similar storm, I encourage you to …
Believe.
Trust.
Surrender.
Act.
Move through the fear.
Move through the holy f*ck moments.
Let them come in the waves as they need.
This is how you reinforce your capacity to bounce back.
You’re growing, so inevitably there’s going to be choppy waters.
To help you start becoming the resourced human that thrives in her life and can tread in the choppy water just as well as she can float and relax, check out the following resources and how we can work together:
Use this habit tracker to start the ground work in creating habit change
Use this deliberate journal to start your mornings assessing how you feel, what’s on for the day, and how you can create ease for all of it
Use this starting over guide to help you create awareness (finally) around how YOU want to feel and how to go after it!
Start with these three resources and start to experience clarity, motivation, and hope immediately.
Then, when you’re looking to maintain momentum, additional support and accountability to truly start over, make positive changes in your life, working with me is worth considering.
When we work together for 12 weeks, this is what you get:
Full accountability….Own your journey, learn from every step, and accelerate your growth through personal responsibility
Full support….With me, you'll never walk alone. You get expert guidance, a cheering squad, and a mentor to accelerate your progress
Resources…Access powerful tools, modalities, insider knowledge, and tips to augment your journey
and
An actual how-to-make-your-life-feel-great-again-guide….Unlock your best life with a proven roadmap, gaining real strategies to find happiness and fulfillment
I’ll show you the exact steps I took to go…
From ….
silently struggling,
feeling stuck,
drinking to avoid feeling,
constantly seeking external validation,
failing to show up for myself and it starting to effect my work and relationships
To…
knowing my worth,
amplifying my selfcare rituals so that I can show up for myself (then others) using my ‘me, first’ protocol,
feeling the full spectrum of human emotions
living a life that feels like I’m in a really good movie
When we start working together, you start feeling better immediately.
We’ll dissect what’s keeping you stuck.
We’ll flush out the narratives and belief systems that keep you rooted FIRMLY where you’re at now.
You’ll learn a rock solid way of communicating with everyone so that there’s no gaps for others to fill
You’ll create and maintain boundaries
If you are unhappy like I was unhappy - you need change.
Because trust me, you want the HAPPY that I live in now!
Ready to begin your journey and start over? Let's Take the First Step Together. Reach out to me today to explore how I can support you in your fresh start! Click here to book a complimentary 45 minute connection session.
Be good to yourself,
Chelsea
aka The Deliberate One
